And I quote...explained

One night, Jeff, Julie and I were out, and Julie started talking about how she wants to go to Russia. Jeff said count him in. Julie then stated that she wants to go there in the winter. "You're nuts." I said "It'll be freezing". "You just want to go in the winter so you can fantasize that you're Lara from Dr. Zhivago and then drive around in a horse drawn carriage, wearing a muff". To which Jeff relied "I draw the line at muff". To which I replied "Isn't that the essence of being gay"? "Drawing the line at muff"?